On the November 5 episode of her Two T’s in a Pod podcast, she spoke out in regards to the privateness her and her youngsters want throughout this time of separation … and why she’s not but able to delve into all the main points of her cut up.

“I’m doing alright,” Mellencamp mentioned. “At this level, I am clearly solely gonna share what I shared on social media. I do not even know the right way to say this eloquently, however I am simply attempting my hardest to be sure that my youngsters’ privateness is protected proper now and that we’re in a position to have all of those conversations.”

The truth star added she was “going to maintain engaged on feeling my finest in order that I can present up the perfect for my youngsters and my life and my work … I feel that’s the largest factor for me proper now.”

Mellencamp and Arroyave have been married since 2011, they usually share three youngsters collectively: Slate, 12, Cruz, 10, and the youngest, Dove, 4. She additionally served as a stepmother to Arroyave’s daughter Isabella, 15.

She formally filed for divorce within the state of California on November 1. Then, on Saturday, November 2, Mellencamp shared a weak, comment-removed publish asserting the cut up.

“Making a public assertion is just not one thing I needed to do, however, in an effort to guard my household from undue hypothesis and rumors, I felt being open, sincere, and weak was the perfect path ahead,” she mentioned on the time.

“I simply did not need it to explode,” she defined of her assertion on her podcast. “And for anyone that is curious why I’d have posted it — posted an announcement — it is as a result of when your identify is recognizable and also you file within the courtroom system, it turns into public.”

On her podcast, she mentioned she would not be sharing why she determined to file for divorce right now, noting that it might appear hypocritical for her to maintain secrets and techniques as somebody who feedback on different celebrities’ lives on her present.

“Being any individual who recaps different individuals’s issues, ‘Do not be a hypocrite,” she mentioned. “However when it does come to this and kids, I feel there’s simply room. It is a bit bit totally different than entering into ‘Jen Aydin reveals textual content alternate with Andy Cohen.’”

Arroyave has but to publicly make a proper assertion for the reason that announcement of the divorce. Some, nevertheless, learn into a photograph he shared of himself with a motivational message.

“You are not at all times going to be motivated or impressed. That is the place rituals & habits are available in,” he captioned his publish. “Having good habits is what is going to get you thru your darkish days. It is whenever you’re below stress that your true character is revealed.”